26 Feb 25 - seeing a trans flag

I have been up in London for work and came out of the office at the end of the day. The weather was nice and there were a lot of people drinking outside the pub across the street from the office.

One of them was draped in a huge trans flag.

This brought me such joy to see “my people” represented so publicly. I wanted to go over and say hi and, I don’t know what. Just to be supportive and thank her and say that I am one of you.

But I couldn’t. I was with colleagues from work.

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