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20 Oct 24 - waxing again

Ouch! My second time waxing my chest hair and it doesn’t get any less painful. It’s weirdly nice to stick the strips on and smooth them down, but it’s the tearing them off that has to follow which is less good. And the first one is a shock, but the rest, I know what they’re going to feel like and so it’s harder to make myself do it. I missed some bits and didn’t do my whole body, so I’m going to have to go again and take more pain. And I haven’t even started on my legs yet. Having a smooth chest is nice though, even if it’s currently a bit sore. Hairy boobs are not a good look and it is quite dysphoric to have chest hair. 

I’m waxing it now as I have the opportunity to go out en femme in a couple of weeks and I want to wear a top that shows some of my chest, but from the last try at waxing, it gave me a rash that took a week to clear so need a bit of lead time

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