As I may have mentioned in a post or two, for me, wearing a bra is a major part of defining the female side of myself. What type of bra best shapes me? Shopping as a male it has largely been guess work, until I was brave enough to go for a bra fitting, so I have a range of styles, some more successful than others. So, I thought I would compare and contrast a few. First, for comparison, without bra: Balcony bra gives me a feminine shape As a natural male, I obviously don’t have any actual breasts, as you can see. Even so, this dress (from Next) is still moderately flattering. Starting with unpadded styles, I have a Debenhams balcony type from the Gorgeous range Debenhams Gorgeous Balcony Bra It’s a size 32D Whig is far too tight on the chest band, and too large a cup. But, the tight band and underwire does give me some shape: Hopefully you can see some shape there. The shaping also alters how my “breasts” feel and it really does mould a shape that feels real to...
I’m just a boy who dreams of being a girl. These are my musings about that journey as I try to work out exactly what that means.